Act Now and Win Your Ex Back

You have just broken up with your partner and you feel like the pain will last forever. During this time you may experience emotions such as sadness, feeling alone, irrational, mad, don’t feel like doing anything etc.You think you had a great relationship, you miss your ex and you want them back.Your first instinct is to get back what you have lost, but before you take any action, ask this question: Was the relationship so good that I have to save it? And I Want My Ex Back.

Issues to Consider:

• When discussing things, does your partner listen to what you have to say?
• Do the two of you want the same things out of life?
• Does your partner make you feel understood?
• Do you fully enjoy each others company?
• Do you feel comfortable sharing your innermost thoughts with your partner?
• If you had to create a short list of people you could spend the day with, would your partner be on that list?
• Or is there mostly indifference, negativity and hostility in your relationship?
• Do you express a lot of warmth and enjoyment for each other?
• Do you feel you are treated with respect?
• Do you have the same values, goals and interests?

If you think about it some alone time answering these questions can be revealing as to what your relationship was all about. This can help you get some clarity, so sit down and write down your feelings and thoughts.

Now continue and write down the good and the bad parts about your partner as well as the relationship as a whole.Now spend some time and compare the two lists.Do the positive outweigh the negative? Now is the time to be brutally honest with yourself.Are there more negative or positive aspects here? Can you have a fulfilling relationship if the negative points are greater?You have to ask the question, can the bad points be changed or not?

If someone else had exactly the same situation you are in, what advice would you give them?You have to be objective and look at the honest truth.The problem is that many people are scared of being alone and they think that they will not be able to find someone else, and they go back to what they know even if there are mostly negative aspects to the relationship.

It is up to you to make a decision now. If all this has added up to a positive future with your ex then you have to get a plan together and work at getting your partner back. So now the time has come to get a plan into action and fight for your partner and Win Your Ex Back.