Everyone does it. Not everyone loves it. Whether you enjoy dating or find it stressful and horrible, or if you are just trying to heal your broken heart, you know you are going to have to do it if you want to find that one person you want to spent the rest of your life with and end your dating career. Girls, you simply have to date guys if you are ever going to find the perfect one for you. Ladies, here is some tips to help you along.
Successful dating can be broken down into the five most important things about dating guys. They are:
1. Guys are not girls. Guys do not like to hang out in malls and shop with their friends and try on outfit after outfit. Even if they need something it's difficult to get them to go shopping. Save the mall time for your girlfriends, it's a great way to catch up with them.
2. Guys are not girls. They do not want to hear about your feelings every minute of the day or what is wrong with your relationship. It's important to find the right time to talk about your relationship otherwise he will not listen to you. Never try to talk to them in front of your friends or his, this will only make him angry and embarrassed. Find a nice quiet place to talk and never, never, never compare him to your ex-boyfriend.
3. Guys are not girls. They do not like to see you show up at their door in your ratty old jeans with no make up on. Trust me on this one. Maybe later - way later, like after the kids become teenagers - it will be okay for this kind of thing to happen. But for now, please, girls: take care of yourselves, put on something nice like a cute skirt and a nice shirt, to keep your man interested.
4. Guys are not girls. They do not love it when their date pulls out their phone at the restaurant and starts texting their friends. While it's nice that you want to keep in touch with your friends, when you are on a date your man should be top on your list. Don't you think he deserves your undivided attention? Texting or talking on your cell while you are on a date is just plain rude. Don't make your date think that he is not worth your full attention.
5. Guys are not girls. Guys are not entertained by hurtful and interesting gossip about others, they will not giggle about it with you. There is nothing to be proud of, according to the male half of the population, when you can come up with the most hurtful rumor. Guy do not gossip like girls do, so it is definitely not cool to talk about one of his friends with a rumor that might not be true. This is something to talk about with the girls over coffee or a drinks.
To having a great time on your dates, remembering these five very important tips will take you much farther with dating guys. Remembering these tips about dating guys will also allow you to get more than one date with the same guy. While many people offering advice on dating will simply say "be yourself".
But trust me, while that is not terrible advice if being yourself includes any of the forbidden behavior in the five most important things to remember when dating guys list, don't be yourself. Be better. Have a better dating life and heal your broken heart, just remember these five very important tips about dating guys.
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